so hard for me to fall in love

ben

Why is it so hard for me to fall in love? This maybe is a  question of a person who hasn't been in love for a very long time, or maybe of someone who has just recently broken off relationship with someone. Is it really difficult to fall in love? Ask yourself. To help you out, here is a checklist and just tell me which best describes you:

It is hard for you to fall in love:

1. Because you easily fall off in a relationship.

2. Because you are choosy and your standards are too high to be reached by someone who is willing to pursue you.

3. Because you always think the welfare of your family.

4. Because you hold onto your past and it is difficult for you to enter into a new relationship.

5. Because maybe you're rude, crude, messy, or uninteresting to others.

6. Because you are too religious that no one is bold enough to level with your piousness.

7. Because you are nerd. You always want to study study and study without thinking of your love life.

8. Because you think that men or women are objects. You just believe in sex as the whole core of relationship.

9. Because you work too hard. You are too busy neglecting the idea of falling in love.

10. Because you think you're old or mature and that falling in love is for the young ones only. This is a myth.

11. Because you are too much insecure of yourself-physically and intellectually.

12. Because you easily get bored.

13. Because you are afraid of commitment (or you do not like it).

14. Because you are scared to be hurt.

15. Because you believe that you just can't meet your heart's pair. This is a cliche'ic alibi.  

Trust me, it is never hard to fall in love. Open your heart and let your love be developed for someone. Do you want to try? Start now!