distinct stigma

Most of her friends proudly attest that she is really a good person. They revere her as the most iconic figure when it comes to friendship, spirituality, social works, and other things that involve community services. But what has gone wrong? Why people still have a more distinct stigma of her?

Yes, there is no question of her dedication to serve her peers and the people around her. With her golden heart, she touches their lives in one way or another. She is mostly present when a friend desperately needs a single advice or two. She is there when the church needs someone to do some chores and rituals. She is there when a certain group needs a hand. But what has gone wrong? Why people still have a more distinct stigma of her?

Here is the real deal:

Outside, she is seen as a near perfect example of her kind. She is dubbed as a 'superwoman' who can fly from one place to another. But  she tends to be another person when she is inside the house. Since she is always visible in any event outside she neglects to manage her affairs inside the house. She can't even fix her bed. She doesn't live alone. It wouldn't have any problem but she shares a room with a friend. She doesn't do any household chores. She only leaves all household works to anyone inside the house. Even just a 3-minute broom around the house is so difficult for her to do. In short, she doesn't know anything that concerns household activities.

Charity begins at home so as goodness should start inside us . There is no sense why we should be good outside without proper management of our affairs inside. Though there is a potential possibility to be good outside but ruined inside, vice versa, this is never advisable. There should be symmetry. When a woman puts some maskara on her left eye, she also puts similar amount on her right eye. If not, she will look strange, insane.