do you love him?

Ending up a relationship is as difficult as throwing away your favorite dress that you have taken care of for a very long time. But no matter how valuable that dress is, if repairing is impossible to achieve and the dress doesn't fit you anymore, you don't have any choice than to put it in a bin where it should belong.

I asked a friend why she is still in a relationship but doesn't love her boyfriend any longer. With a lopsided grin she answered, "It is really hard to split up with him because we have been accustomed to each other. It would truly be so difficult to cut the communication between us that we have done for almost 2 years." 

I added, "Do you love him?" 

"I don't know." She uttered without thinking twice.

There is no reason staying in a relationship where one doesn't love the other, vice versa. It is better to finally get out of it cordially with your partner than fooling him or yourself. Yes, it is difficult, but think of your partner. He would be more hurt knowing that you don't love him while you continue being together.

Stop it. End it. Set him free. Set yourself free!